I believe in the power and potential of relationships that transcend cultural boundaries. But: Relationships are hard, and intercultural relationships come with an additional set of challenges.
Building a relationship with someone whose culture, upbringing, and experience of the world are different than ours can be challenging. Enhancing our intercultural sensitivity and knowledge, and developing helpful tools and skills can begin to bridge the gaps.
Intercultural Relationship Coaching helps to become more aware of our own culture and values - and those of our partners. We can learn how these values and assumptions influence the way we perceive the world and help to actively improve relationships.
With my coaching, I don’t provide judgments or solutions. Through the process, I will facilitate and structure your own process to help you find your inner resources and solutions. Together, we can build strong relationships that foster open communication, mutual understanding, and productive collaboration to create shared culture and vision for the future.
Improved communication skills and tools to foster deeper bonds and trust as well as the ability to effectively manage and resolve conflicts or tension
Recognizing one’s deep-seated cultural values, underlying assumptions, and recurring behaviors as well as shared values and a unified vision for the future
Strengthens intercultural sensitivity and appreciation of each other's cultures
Increased ability to understand each other's needs, motivations, and assumptions guiding one another’s actions
More energy and a sense of unity and belonging within the relationship
Developing structures to support joint decision-making, establish boundaries, and coping mechanics for high-stress settings
My clients come to explore and discuss a diverse range of topics as they navigate their intercultural relationships (including long-distance relationships), e.g.:
Dating and committed early relationships including the relationship timeline in intercultural contexts
Longterm relationships and marriages
Family planning, pregnancy, and parenthood, including the dynamics of third-culture kids
Adjusting to new environments when moving, coping with culture shock, and privilege
Significance of language and effective communication
Role of family involvement and establishment of boundaries
Navigating social norms, values, assumptions, expectations, and behaviors